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Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Lent Gives Us a Chance to Focus on What Matters Most

This Wednesday, we begin our journey through the season of Lent with the imposition
of ashes. As they are placed on our foreheads, we are invited to repent and believe in
the Gospel, and are also reminded that from dust we came, and to dust we shall return.

These kinds of things are very counter-cultural if you think about it. We sometimes can
get focused on the here and now only, so our lives can easily revolve around our
schedule or be very short-term as we put our priorities into being a busy-body or
materialism. But the stark reality is for all that we put our energy into, it lasts but a
moment, and there is no getting around the reality that we indeed return to ashes one
day.

The joy though for the Christian is that is not the end of the story. The ashes symbolize
something that once was; we though always will be. But while our earthly bodies turn to
dust, our bodies are also glorified through the resurrection. However, the invitation to
follow Jesus does require a response too. Jesus always gives us an invitation, and does
not force Himself upon us. Hopefully we want to respond to that invitation and not stand
before Him at the judgement and say “well, I sure was awfully busy with my job and
hobbies, and I managed to get a nice house in the end” but have a conversation with
our Lord about the good things that we did with our life to love Him and others, and also
learn how if there are any final steps we need to take how His love will make that
possible.

This wonderful season of Lent gives us the time to take some of those steps as we grow
closer to Him. It shouldn’t be a season of just thinking of “stuff to give up” and abstaining
from meat on Friday, but a true season of growth.

With respect to fasting, consider fasting from things that can take up our time and
distract us from God and one another. Sometimes there are things we enjoy that maybe
aren’t out of control, but we recognize perhaps we spend too much time on. It could be
video games, going to the casino, going to the mall or movies, eating too much fatty
foods/sweets, etc. If you do decide to give something up, how about being constructive
with it? For instance, if one gives up going to the movies on Friday, maybe that money
for the ticket could instead be given to the needy, or the time could be given to spend
time with your family members. Ultimately the good that comes from fasting from
something allows us to look back after Lent ends and be in a better spot to use the
virtue of temperance to keep our appetites under control.

Other times there are “spiritual fats” that we consume that would be best removed
entirely, such as sins we have fallen into or bad habits such as gossiping, being
condescending or impatient, or other sins. I once read a story from a dad who wrote
about how his son decided to give up fighting with his brother for Lent. Halfway through
he asked how it was going, and his son replied it’s going OK, but I sure can’t wait for
Easter! Well, the point is it’s probably of course something he shouldn’t return to. Again
we want to emerge from Lent not to find where we hid the candy, but rather a better person – so what better way to do that then work hard at trying to eliminate nagging sins
from our lives.

Another spiritual practice during Lent is almsgiving. Lent gives us a chance to look at
how we use our resources, but again think outside the box here. It’s important to be
generous and to help others, but time is perhaps an even more valuable commodity.
Lent is a great time to try to become more generous and spend more time helping those
in need, or even with family if we have become too busy or our out and about all the
time rather than spending time at home with loved ones.

Lastly, Lent is a great time for prayer. As a priest, I made a promise to pray daily a
prayer called the Liturgy of the Hours. You can download an app for that prayer for free
on your iPhone too. These are the prayers of the Church and they have readings from
the Bible and saints and other spiritual writers along with various psalms and other
prayers divided into sections of the day. I bring up my promise to say them because I
really am glad the Church asks all clergy to do this prayer, because it would be so easy
for me to fall into a habit of missing days or thinking “I’m just too busy” or “well my work
is my prayer today.” Remember, we have to be Saint Mary and Saint Martha. We have
to work and be active, but we also need time to listen to Jesus. So use Lent as a time to
find time for spiritual growth and prayer, using what works best for you personally. The
Liturgy of the Hours can be a little confusing but the phone app can be helpful in walking
you through them (and its free too as I said; the books are about $100 and I use them
mainly as I prefer “old school” actual books). I really like these prayers personally. But
there’s the rosary, the chaplet of Divine Mercy, Stations of the Cross which we have
every Friday evening during Lent, spiritual reading, silence and meditation, reading the
Scriptures, etc. There are so many ways to pray so use what works best for you. Just
make an effort to pray more, maybe even putting a reminder on your iPhone date book
or setting a prayer alarm. And don’t give this up come Easter; hopefully you’ll find that
praying more has brought you closer to God and made you a better person.

I hope you have a wonderful and joyful Lenten Season. Remember, this isn’t a season
to just get the ashes so people at the office know you went to Mass, or to “one up”
people in conversations so they know what you’ve given up, or to just load up on fish on
Fridays at fish fries. It’s a season to grow as a person. Who do you want to become?
Our end is not ashes. Our end is redemption through what Jesus has done for us. But if
God is willing to go so far for us as to suffer and die out of love, how far are we willing to
go for Him? Taking up our crosses daily isn’t fun, for the way to Easter for us all must
lead through Good Friday. But ultimately we must do so to fix our eyes on the crown
that never withers and fades, the crown of glory. The journey is at times long but we are
never on that road alone – Jesus is with us every step of the way. Let’s use this sacred
season to look to Him and to see what we need to do to stay on that road that will lead
us to His Kingdom.

Have a very blessed Lent!

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: The Past Teaches Us How to Live for the Future

I’ve always loved history, because it teaches us so much about where we’ve been but also how to learn from the past to get to the future.

  With respect to those who have gone before us, if you think about it, there is so much to be inspired about. Just look through the history of our own parish.

  As people moved into the area, it goes without saying a number of these people were Catholic. So in April of 1855, the first Catholic Mass in the area was held in Hastings, in a home near Lakeville. Saint Patrick’s of Inver Grove Heights was formed in 1856, and in 1858 an area priest, Fr. Felix Tissot, offered Mass in Rosemount in a home, which became known as the Rosemount Mission. By the 1860s, various Masses were being held in the area, and as the decade wore on, the Rosemount Mission would become the parish of Saint Joseph’s.

  The Lakeville and Rosemount mission was combined by Fr. Anatole Oster, a German priest, in 1868. The location was to be the intersection of Dodd Road and the future Pilot Knob Road and Town Line Road. The land was purchased from a family, Thomas and Mary Hyland for $100. The church was financed by votes from mission members to be repaid with 10% interest. $2360 was raised toward construction. On Sunday, August 30, 1868, the church was dedicated to Saint Joseph and a Mass was said on a temporary altar.

  What’s neat about the first parish is how parishioners literally built it. Most workers listed were parishioners. Parishioners also pitched in for lightning rods to protect the church, and paid for the Saint Joseph statue. By July 1870, the church was ready, financed and built largely by the people of God here in Rosemount. The only drawback was getting there, as it was halfway between Rosemount and Lakeville, though by 1876 All Saints would be built in Lakeville or Fairfield as it was known back then.

  In 1880, a major storm destroyed the church. So the parish moved to the Temperance Hall (now the sight of Carbone’s, a bar), while the second church was built in town. On September 15, 1888, the first festival was held at the Temperance Hall, and it wasn’t long before the parish started having card parties as well as fundraisers, and bazaars.

  As time went on, the parish again needed to grow. People, knowing this, wanted to help. For instance Parishioner James Tierney died on January 15, 1907 at the age of 84 years. When James died he left an estate worth about $50,000. Among his public bequests was $1000 to the new Cathedral in St. Paul and $10,000 to aid in building a new Catholic Church in Rosemount. With parishioners helping, and fundraising, over the next two decades that fund grew $35,000 by 1922. The total cost though would be north of $60,000; $61,972 to be exact. Adding on the heating and the plumbing and electrical work and it was $81,669. The cornerstone was laid in 1924, the first Mass on Christmas Eve, and the parish dedicated in May of 1925. Parishioners paid for the altar as a gift, $1500. In the years that followed, there were numerous fundraisers to support the church. They included dinners, bake sales, ice cream socials, and a series of card parties. The parish also held an annual bazaar. A chicken supper was served beginning at 5:30 p.m. until everyone was served. The dinner was priced at 50 cents a plate for adults and 25 cents for children.

  Speaking of children, as the parish grew, in the 1950s it was decided that the time was right for a school. A building committee approved the school, and Fr. James Furey left the parish to find a staff for it asking for prayers. They were answered when he returned with the Sisters of Saint Agnes. Again, parishioners stepped up by helping to build the school. Classes began in the fall of 1954. It was enlarged in 1957, costing $113,000. Eventually in the 60s, a convent was built. In the 70s, new heating and electrical systems along with redecorating were $135,000. By the late 1990s, it was determined a new parish would probably need to be built because the population kept growing.

  That beautiful sanctuary is where we gather today for Mass. Ground broke after Mass offered by Bishop Richard Pates in July of 2002, and on October 5, 2003, our first Mass took place following a procession from the old to the new church. Five years down the road, our school was added onto our campus.

  Through the decades our history shows that time and time again, people have taken ownership of their parish through a spirit of generosity.

  This weekend, we celebrate that history with the release of the history of our parish.

  At the 8:30 a.m. Mass today, we’ll be honoring all who helped make our history book, “Looking to our Future Through the Windows of our Past” a reality.  Having been given an advanced copy, I’ve found the quality of the production and detail of research to be incredible. The book was truly a labor of love, and it teaches us so much about the history of our parish. I know you’ll find it inspiring to read about the incredible sacrifices made by so many, and year by year find a similar theme: how people demonstrated time and time again a love for their parish and sacrificed so much to make Saint Joe’s a vibrant and thriving parish that brought people closer to God and closer together as the people of God. The book really inspires us to look at all that those who were in this parish have done to make our parish thrive, and to learn from them about how to continue to build and grow our parish as we love and serve God and one another.

  I’d like to personally thank Mr. & Mrs. John and Ann Loch,  Mr. & Mrs. Jerry and Kate Mattson and Mary Kay Amberg for their tireless research and assistance for the Celebration Book. A big “thank you” as well to all the members of the 150th Anniversary Committee who also contributed to help bring this project to fruition. For a complete list of our Contributors and Resources, please reference page 155 of the 150th Celebration book.

  Finally, I would like to thank you, our parishioners, for continuing to make history for all you do in support of your parish. As I’ve said, it’s such an honor to be part of a warm and welcoming parish family where people sacrifice and give so much and live out their faith day in and day out. Truly people don’t just look to our history as stories to remember, but look to those stories as ways to guide us into the future by giving selflessly of our time, talent and treasure.

Have a blessed week,

~ Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Do We Know What We are Outraged About?

I have to admit, one of the things that has annoyed me in recent years is how it seems
once a week now, a story emerges where one group of people is apparently upset or
outraged over something. The media reports on a few people being angry, and then it
seems to take on a life of its own and snowball so you get the impression that everyone
is angry. However, my sense is most people aren’t really that outraged as often as the
media might make it seem. They are more concerned their daily lives. True outrage
would come when they see a grave act of injustice; I think of 9/11 in my own lifetime for
instance, a horrific event that outraged and united a country to take a stand against evil.

Now don’t get me wrong, sometimes there are things to be outraged about. Anger can
be quite justifiable. Jesus is angry when He sees merchants being oblivious to the
sacredness of the Temple which is why He overturns the tables and chairs and cries out
to stop turning His Father’s house into a marketplace. And tragically, we have seen
apathy too and a lack of outrage in the world at times. For instance, I recently read how
with the attitudes of the world in the 1930s, if Hitler had not invaded Poland but simply
focused on murdering the Jewish people in Germany, the world likely would not have
intervened at all. And in more modern times, we have also seen a lack of moral outrage
from things such as racism and sexism to abortion.

The point is that sometimes being angry about something in the greater world or even
among our family and friends is warranted. Apathy and lack of caring is a big problem.
But so too is being overly-offended by something too. So what is a person to do?

For starters, I think it’s important to remember that just as we have mortal and venial
sins, we also have degrees of things in the world that are morally wrong. For instance,
in recent weeks, there has been a lot of news coverage about the Governor of Virginia,
Robert Northam.

He recently made comments on third trimester abortions, saying in cases of severe
deformity that were a child born they would be kept comfortable and “The infant would
be resuscitated if that’s what the mother and the family desired, and then a discussion
would ensue between the physicians and the mother.” With respect to proposed
legislation in Virginia, there is a bill that is under consideration that actually eliminates
the requirement that two other physicians certify that a third trimester abortion is
necessary to prevent the woman’s death or impairment of her mental or physical health,
as well as the need to find that any such impairment to the woman’s health would be
substantial and irremediable. And then in New York, abortion laws were recently
expanded to allow the abortionist to end a child’s life so long as the abortionist makes a
“reasonable and good-faith judgment” that abortion will protect the woman’s health.
While supporters of these pieces of legislation would contend that third trimester
abortions are rare and that they would be done only if a child were severely deformed or
the mother’s health were in danger, the states say otherwise. A 2013 study of abortions
after the 20th week of pregnancy indicated that “most women seeking later terminations
are not doing so for reasons of fetal anomaly or life endangerment.” There are an estimated 12,000 abortions after week 20 in the United States; that’s higher than the
annual number of guy homicides each year. But, I ask myself, where is the outrage over
that?

The thing of it is though is these abortion comments and bills did not receive a ton of
coverage. What did was a photo from 1984 where the future governor may have been in
blackface, a KKK hood, or none of the above as the story and his memory of the party
changed. There were calls for his resignation from many in his own party; however it
seems at least at the time of this writing that he will be staying on.

I think we can all agree wearing a KKK hood at a party, or wearing black face, really
isn’t appropriate and is insensitive. It’s wrong. That’s clear.

But here’s what I found a bit perplexing: there was far less outrage over the liberalizing
of laws to kill unborn children then there was from a photo taken at a party in 1984 that
was just discovered.

So which is the greater moral evil here?

I use this case as just one example. The point is there are degrees of moral gravity.
Whatever it is that crops up, we should know the issue, ask ourselves what does the
Church teach on it, and respond appropriately. With respect to the photo, were I in
Virginia and a supporter of someone who had been in the photo, I’d want to know was it
taken recently or long ago? Has the person changed? What do their beliefs represent
now?

Second, we also have to know the facts of the story too. We’ve seen time and time
again how a story gets people riled up and leads them to rush to judgment, sometimes
getting the facts wrong and in the process destroying a person’s reputation. If you are
outraged about something that seems offensive, make sure it’s a factual story first!

But third, we also have to remember people do change. Can we be outraged over a
sin? Yes. But what if a person says “I made a mistake, I’ve learned from it.”? We must
remember that it’s easy to get outraged about things that come to light, and in the day of
social media it’s easy for a person’s past to come back and bite them. But are we open
to people changing? When things come to light, we also need to be open to recognizing
that people can change. As I’ve said before, if all moments of your life were on tape,
how would that look if someone took a few minutes or even seconds and that now
defined you?

Lastly, as I said we must be people of action too. As someone who has always been
fond of history, I’ve often wondered why there was at times such a lack of outrage at
various points. Today, how can so many say “I’m against abortion and would never
consider it, but who am I to tell someone what to do with their body?” There are indeed
things that should make us angry, but the anger needs to lead to action.

My gut tells me that while a quick read of media outlets might make it seem like
everyone is offended, as I said my sense is most people aren’t, and some that do get
offended don’t get offended at the right things. Hearing confessions now for 12 years
and going to confession for about 33 years now, I can assure you we all do things we
aren’t proud of. God wasn’t offended though by our sinfulness; He chose to act and
become one of us and suffer and die for us all.

Outrage has it’s place – but hopefully it always leads to change, where we are angry at
some of the things we do and some of the things that others do, but do not wallow in
shame or anger, but use God’s grace to replace hate with love, despair with hope, and
anger with peace. Shouting on social media may be all well and fine, but far better is
conversion and learning from mistakes we make and recognizing evil so it can lead to
true conversion and change.

God’s blessings to you this week,

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Love Takes Many Forms

Millions of people will be spending money this upcoming week on Valentine’s Day.
(Even though it was changed to Saint Cyril and Methodius Day, Hallmark doesn’t have
too many cards for that day). And while in particular for couples the day may entail
chocolates, roses, or a date night and celebrate the romantic side of love, as we all
know love takes many forms. And it’s worth pondering how we live out these various
forms of love.

It probably won’t shock you that this space will not be used for much advice with respect
to dating and relationships, though I will offer this up to any gentlemen reading: if you
are going out on Valentine’s Day, it’s probably not best to ask your significant other to
pay the bill or “go Dutch.” Now, let’s move on.

What I would like to write about briefly are the different components of love, in that the
term has so many meanings and ways to think about it, but each are important. Here’s
what comes to mind for me when I think about love.

Sacrifice. We refer to Mass as a sacrifice because it makes present again the sacrifice
of Jesus for us on Good Friday. And we are reminded of God’s love for us every time
we look at the crucifix. We know very little about the real Saint Valentine which is why
he is no longer on the official calendar of saints, but most accounts say he was
martyred for holding to his faith in the third century, and did acts of love for others.
Sacrifice though has to be a part of every loving relationship. Parents sacrifice time and
money to raise their children. We sacrifice ego when we apologize and admit we were
wrong. Children sacrifice time to help their parents and their family. People sacrifice of
their time and talent and treasure to help their parish or a charity. The list goes on and
on. When we gaze upon Jesus in the Eucharist or look at the cross, we should think
“how far am I willing to go for those who need me?”

Receiving. It might sound obvious, but love also needs to be received. Ideally for us,
that’s the first thing that happens when we enter the world; we are placed into the arms
of a loving mother. And when we are baptized, we celebrate how God’s love is always
with us. But it’s worth asking how do we receive love. Sometimes when we weren’t
given the right understanding of love in our upbringing or went through difficult life
experiences with family or the Church, we might not receive love as we should.
Receiving love means being open to God’s love and mercy and forgiving ourselves and
reaching out to God when we fall. It means loving yourself. It means accepting that love
is not a privilege but a right, and others who are in our lives should also be giving it to
us. This means if a spouse isn’t loving as they should, or a parent is cold or cruel, we
have a right to speak up when a relationship isn’t as it should be. Sadly some people
just aren’t aware or chose to be aware of how they treat others, sometimes within a
family, or among friends or at a workplace. We shouldn’t feel guilty when we speak up if
someone isn’t treating us as they should.

Forgiving. In every relationship, we let others down be it our spouses, our kids, or our
parents. We are human. And that is why we ask for forgiveness from God. But forgiving
others can be tough. But when we work towards forgiveness it can do so much to
remind a person they are loved, and it also helps us to move forward and takes a
burden off of our shoulders. Forgiveness though needs to be authentic; it takes time and
sometimes a starting point is to acknowledge the reality of being wronged, then pray to
God for help, then start praying for the other person. We can talk to others about a
situation too, and hopefully get to a point where we can truly forgive others who
trespass against us by reaching out to them as the last step. And remember the point
with receiving love: forgiving also means forgiving ourselves. We are human and
inevitably make mistakes. Don’t forget the many good things you do too!

“Tough Love” Last week I spoke on how when we truly love others we sometimes
have to challenge them. What do you do when you see a Little League parent making a
scene and yelling at a coach or umpire? What do you do when you are aware of a
drinking problem in the family? What do you do when someone you know stops going to
Mass? How do you handle “family secrets?” The human instinct with sin can be to run
from it or to pretend that it’s not there. But we have to confront these things out of love
to truly help people.

Tolerating Differences. As I’ve also recently preached on, it seems these days people
can become less tolerant than ever. Why is that though? I have very strong religious
and political beliefs but one of my closest friends is my exact opposite, yet we’ve
maintained a great friendship, even if he is wrong and I am right (just seeing if you are
still reading). We have to accept the fact that we are a diverse world. And if we love all
people, we will make an effort to pray for all, and to not quickly condemn based on
politics or other differences. You certainly don’t have to change your mind or agree, but
we do have to coexist together and perhaps starting from what we share in common
and just trying to calm down when we encounter those with whom we have strong
differences can improve our relationships with each others. And also, consider arguing –
a good thing – rather than shouting – a bad thing. Arguing helps us to understand the
other person, the issue we are arguing about more deeply, and also helps them to
understand us better.

Catechesis. Jesus sends us as disciples into the world. But how catechized are we?
What I mean by this is do we know our faith? Can we articulate it? We show our love for
God by learning all He has to teach us; this is why we study the Bible and also learn our
faith as we have understood it through the assistance of the Church which is there to
shepherd us. Its important to not just memorize prayers, but to know the meaning
behind those prayers, and why we believe what we do. But it also helps us to
evangelize the world, and this is more important than ever in a world which has so much
relativism in it, meaning one belief is as good as another which is what a lot of people
adhere to as a mindset. Getting to heaven is a pretty big deal – and it should be our
primary focus in life, to become a saint. Salvation of souls is something we all partake
in, and knowing and articulating our faith to others is a big component of love.

Some might think of love in a special way on Valentine’s Day, and it’s a wonderful day
to celebrate love. But love for the Christian is a way of life; and just as every couple
quickly realizes there’s a lot more to a relationship than dating, but that it’s about
making one another better through sacrifice, forgiveness and challenging each other,
the same is true for us all. God wants us to grow in our understanding of Him and gives
us a commandment – love one another as I have loved you. Let’s think about that not
just on February 14th, but every day of the year.

Have a blessed week!

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: The Catholic Services Appeal: One by One, We Can Make a Big Difference

Recently I preached on the importance of understanding what it means to be many parts
but all one body, stressing the importance of truly loving one another.

Part of that is respect to how we listen to others, refrain from judging when it isn’t to
ultimately help the person, and try to think about the words we use and write on social
media. But another component is reaching out to help those in need.

Our parish history is filled with people who sacrificed greatly to build our parish up to a
thriving faith community now 151 years strong. Beyond that though, we have always
thought beyond the walls of our parishes, and we see that at Saint Joe’s through our
outreach to Hati; our relationship with Fr. Terry Hoppenjans and his parish of Saint
Michael’s in Paintsville, Kentucky; our yearly Youth Mission Trip that helps the less
fortunate and Service Marathon our school does each fall at Feed My Starving Children,
just to name a few of our outreach ministries.

Each year, our Archdiocese asks us to look outward through our support of the Catholic
Services Appeal. While we can do a lot on our own in our parishes, no single parish
could have all the resources necessary to help the Catholic School system thrive, run the
seminary or youth programs across the diocese. And that’s where the Catholic Services
Appeal comes in.

You probably have received or will soon be receiving information in the mail concerning
the annual Catholic Services Appeal, as letters were sent out from the Appeal
Foundation this past Wednesday, January 30th.

As for the specifics of where the monies raised go:

  • $50,000 to Abria Pregnancy Resources which provides a safe environment for women,
    teens and couples experiencing an unplanned pregnancy.
  • $200,000 to American Indian Ministry to promote the Catholic faith in the America.
  • $25,585 to the Archdiocesan Council of Catholic Women which empowers and
    educates women in spirituality, leadership and service to Christ.
  • $264,000 for campus ministry at the Newman Center at the U of M.
  • $11,000 for campus ministry with Saint Paul’s Outreach, which actively invites college
    students to a life of Christian discipleship.
  • $700,000 for Catholic charities to help the poor.
  • $39,733 for ministry and pastoral care to the deaf.
  • $1,703,125 to our support Catholic schools and provide scholarships
  • $150,000 for evangelization programs
  • $800,000 for high school scholarships to our 13 Catholic High Schools
  • $600,000 for hospital chaplaincy
  • $350,000 for Latino Ministry to nature the faith in the Latino community.
  • $256,000 to the Marriage, Family & Life Office to help nature the faith within
    families.
  • $1,840,000 to support parishes in the form of rebates from the appeal.
  • $32,000 for Prison Ministry.
  • $26,875 to support Rachel’s Vineyard, which offers retreats for individuals seeking
    healing from an abortion.
  • $1,063,807 for the Seminaries of Saint Paul to help in educating future priests.
  • $110,000 for the Venezuelan Mission, in Ciudad Guayana, Venezuela, where the
    Archdiocese has had a presence for nearly 50 years.
  • $64,000 for Youth and Young Adult ministries for ministries to teens and young
    adults and the annual Archdiocesan Youth Day.

When you give to the Catholic Services Appeal you provide food and shelter, education,
spiritual support, and sacraments to individuals who are in need, disabled, imprisoned,
hospitalized, or in nursing homes. You support low-income seniors, pregnant mothers,
refugees, and immigrants. You support seminarians preparing for the priesthood. You
help our 65,000 brothers and sisters at the mission parish of Jesucristo Resucitado in
Venezuela. All of this happens when people come together.

As a generous parish, we need to be always mindful of our connections to one another. I
certainly see this all of the time here at Saint Joe’s, in that so many come together to
help make things happen. Every gift helps, even if you can give only a small amount.

Finally, be sure to check out the Catholic Services Appeal web site:
http://www.csafspm.org. Here you’ll find all the information you could want on the
Appeal, including a break down of dollar amounts, frequently asked questions, and
more detailed information on each group who is helped through the Appeal. Of course
you can give on the website too.

Thank you for your generosity, and never forget what a big impact you can make,
whether you are giving a few dollars or a few hundred. God bless you, and thank you for
prayerfully considering a gift for this important yearly stewardship effort to support the
services of our Archdiocese. Working together, we truly can have such an impact!

God bless,

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Celebrating Our School

One of the joys of being at Saint Joseph’s is being able to serve at a parish with a school. Seeing the dedication of our principal Kelly Roche and the great teachers who serve at Saint Joe’s, it goes without saying that our students are prepared not just for the 9th grade but on how to continue to grow in their faith on their lifelong journey.

This week, we celebrate Catholic Schools Week nationally. So what is it that makes Saint Joseph’s such a remarkable school?

For one, we have outstanding programs at all grade levels, Preschool through eighth. School students receive daily religious instruction and prayer, go to Mass each week, and also have opportunities to live out the faith throughout the year.

The core values of our school include:

Evangelizing- Our parish school possesses an evangelizing attitude that is inherent in our words, actions, and ministry reflecting that all of us are children of God created in God’s image and likeness.

Life Long Learning- Our parish school is dedicated to growing in our knowledge of Jesus through formal and informal education throughout our lives. We embrace opportunities for continual learning and strive for achievement in all areas of learning and life.

One in Christ- Our parish school is strengthened by diversity, a product of God’s creative wisdom. By expressing and utilizing our unique individual gifts, we are cultivating the Kingdom of God on earth.

Prayer and Worship – Our parish school values prayer and worship as a sacred means through which we deepen our relationship with God and one another. Our expressions of faith embrace tradition and a relevant message for 21st century Christians.

Respect for All People- Our parish school is committed to God’s commandment to love one another. We welcome and engage all who are served by our ministry. We interact with people, whether within or outside our school community, in a respectful, welcoming, and caring manner.

Service- Our parish school values and promotes service in living out our faith both locally and in our greater community. God calls and empowers us to use our gifts and talents for the benefit of others, especially those who are most in need.

With these values as our foundation, students are grounded in the faith and learn what it means to grow as a Christian.

Our academic curriculum is also outstanding, as students are taught religion, reading/language arts, math, science, social studies, music, physical education, art, Spanish and technology. Our reading and math scores are also consistently higher than the national averages.

There are also things that happen at our school that you see and experience every day. You see the kids caring and looking out for one another. You see teachers caring so deeply about them and going above and beyond what their vocation requires to go the extra mile. You also see so many parents volunteer and show their love for the school.

As I’ve said many times at our parish and in others, this is always “our” school in the sense that the school is part of the parish and the parish part of the school. Whether one has children in the school or not, all of us share in the mission of helping one another to grow in the faith, and the school is a mission that does just that. Thank you so much for the love that you have shown for Saint Joseph’s school over the years.

At this time we are looking at the school year of 2019-2020, and if you are looking at options for education for your children, please prayerfully consider our parish school. We do have financial aid available! You can reach out to our principal Kelly Roche with any questions, or to arrange a tour.

Celebrating this wonderful week, I’d like to thank all who support our school and please keep all involved in our school, from staff to volunteers to the students and alumni, in your prayers. We truly have something very special in our parish school – so let’s celebrate that not just one week out of the year, but every day of the year as part of our parish mission and identity.

God Bless

~ Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Vigilance in the Fight to Protect the Unborn

This Tuesday, January 22nd, marks a special day on the Liturgical Calendar: the Day of
Prayer for the Legal Protection of Unborn Children. It is the day when the Supreme
Court permitted abortion in the United States in the Roe v. Wade ruling. And tragically,
millions of lives have been lost.

As the years pass since Roe v. Wade, while most people are still against abortion,
some are uncomfortable doing much about it, thinking about it, or talking about it.
Hence, you might come across the argument: “well, I would never condone that sort of
thing, but who am I to speak out against what others want to do.” Many people said the
same thing with regards to slavery and many people said the same thing with regards to
the Holocaust. Indeed, There is a story from the days of the Nazi atrocities that tells of a
church along a road where the trains passed, carrying Jews to execution. When they
passed the church on Sunday mornings, they would cry out in the hope that the
worshipers would hear their cries and rescue them. The noise of the wailing prompted
members of the congregation to ask the pastor, “What are we to do about this
disturbance to our worship?” The pastor paused and then said, “Tell the people to sing
a little louder.” We may not hear the voices of the unborn, but they cry out for us to act.
Ignoring this injustice will not make it go away. Indeed, the bishops of the United
States, in a 1997 statement, called the attitude of saying that it’s not the government’s
task to legislate morality, and that it’s a personal choice, “morally repugnant.”

What are we to do? There are numerous ways we can get involved.

One is by educating ourselves. Someone told me if you ask any parent who sees an
ultrasound of their unborn child, its hard to conceive how someone could then go on to
not have the child. While many in the world would call an unborn child not life but
potential life, consider how much development occurs in just the initial weeks and
months: blood flow by the fourth to fifth week; heart development between 18 and 25
days, and fingers and toes by the sixth week. Its understandable in that during the initial
weeks when one can’t see someone as being pregnant one might think that there is no
life present – but indeed, we have a human being, and so many just aren’t aware of all
that happens in the first moments of life. Our job as evangelists for Christ is to educate
ourselves and others about this truth, and also to be aware of the numerous resources
that are available help people chose life. Statistics do show that more people are not
choosing to end their pregnancy before birth, and some feel this may be in part to those
who are involved in the pro-life movement setting up centers near clinics that give
women resources and help. I truly believe they make a difference. You might not know
this, but the Knights of Columbus have been very active in paying for ultrasound
machines to be sent to life centers, places where women go for help who choose life
and I truly believe this equipment has saved many lives.

Secondly, forgiveness and compassion can never be emphasized enough. It’s what we
preach as a Church, and it’s what we must live out. The Church is there to help women
and those affected by abortion offering not just forgiveness through the sacraments, but
also to help people find the resources they need to heal. The sad thing is so many
woman feel the guilt set in. For instance, one woman I read about who shares her story,
Debbie, saw her life spiral downhill after she made the decision to not carry her child to
term. Initially, she handled it well she thought – she thought she could keep a secret
hidden in a deep part of her soul. But as the years went by, she began self-destructive
behaviors which led to drinking, drugs, two failed marriages and even an attempt on her
own life. But eventually, she met someone who told her there is help and hope. She
began to read the Bible, and the words of Isaiah 1:18-19 spoke to her: “Come now, let
us argue this out. No matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can remove it. I can make
you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can
make you as white as wool…let me help you.” Gradually she stepped out of her
darkness, and now she runs a recovery center for women who are looking for healing. It
took people for her to help see that light, and you and I have to be aware of the pain
that people may have. If we know someone who has had an abortion, or has lived with
pain or silence for years, we need to help them find healing by taking the time to talk
with them when they seek our help.

Third, we need to get involved. There’s a big danger that as time passes we might think
there is nothing we can do, or that abortion is somehow a matter for the courts. But
that’s hardly the case. We should consider life issues when we go to a caucus or vote
for someone, and while the Church of course doesn’t endorse candidates, the bishops
of the United States have given us a great document entitled “Faithful Citizenship” that
gives us an idea of what issues should be looked at, and speaks on abortion. Hopefully
we keep that issue in mind at the polls. Our legislators can greatly effect abortion. A
huge piece of legislation that just happened not too long ago was the Minnesota
Women’s Right to Know Law, a great bill. Twenty-three states now have such
legislation. It means that before a woman has an abortion, she be made aware of its
risks and alternatives. This bill was passed in 2003, but it didn’t happen overnight. It
took ten years of people working hard to put pressure on legislators for that bill to be
passed and signed into law. That’s just one example of how the people we vote for can
help to save lives, and when we speak up for life, they have to listen to us. Getting
involved can mean an op-ed letter to the editor, praying in front of an abortion clinic,
donating to MCCL or a pro-life group, praying for the unborn, talking about this issue
with people, having discussions online, and calling our elected officials.

And finally, we have to be vigilant and be on guard to avoid apathy. Abortion has been
legal my entire life in the United States. Many might be tempted to think nothing will
ever change. But by being active we can do so much. Unjust laws in our nation’s
history, from slavery to Jim Crow laws to laws preventing women from voting, have
changed only when people were dedicated to helping others see the truth of injustice.
So let’s not sit on the sidelines and think “nothing will ever change” or “who am I? I can’t
do anything about it.”

Here at Saint Joe’s, we have an amazing pro-life group. We have parishioners who pray
at Planned Parenthood, and are active in educating people on why it is so important to
choose life. Every human being is created in the image of God, and is worthy of life and
love. By being informed on this issue, speaking up for those who have no voice, and
reaching out with compassion to those who have been affected by its after-effects, we
can do so much to make that truth known, healing hearts and changing attitudes – but
only if we let the Holy Spirit work through us to be people of action, not silence.

God bless,

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Feast of the Baptism of the Lord Reminds us of Our Mission

One of the things Christmas reminds us of us how God loves us so much that He dwells
among us, and shows us precious we are to Him. This weekend, our Christmas Season
comes to an end with the Baptism of the Lord, and once again, as Jesus begins His
ministry at this moment, we again are reminded of how our God is with us always.

While all of us as Catholics are baptized, when we celebrate it as Christians, it gives us
the grace and strength to overcome sin through the virtues of faith, hope and love, and
it incorporates us into the life of the Church. So what’s going on with Jesus then? He
certainly doesn’t need virtues to overcome sin if He has no sin and is God Himself. And
He’s the one who establishes the Church founding it on Peter.

Jesus, through His baptism, is doing His first thing in public – and that is standing by you
and me in line. He’s encouraging us through this act to do what He does – to focus on
repentance and becoming a better person, and taking up our mission too.

Tomorrow starts the season of ordinary time. The color of green is used, as green is
meant to symbolize hope and life. Think spring – the hint of green on the trees in early
spring or seeing that green substance again under the snow reminds us of new life.
Eventually the snow and ice melt away and the landscape comes back to life again.
That also happens from our souls too as spiritual growth happens, and through our
baptism, we can think about our own spiritual growth and how we can help fan the
flames of faith in the greater world.

Our own personal growth is something we’ll focus on a bit more here come March when
we begin the season of Lent, but really it’s not limited to the 40 days of the Lenten
Season. When we are baptized, we are claimed for God. (And certainly unbaptized can
go to heaven; you might remember “limbo” as this kind of perpetual happy state but not
quite heaven that was taught once upon a time. Well there was no real theological basis
for it which is why Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI definitively removed it from the Catholic
lexicon). So what is happening is on the one hand, when we say a person is removed
from original sin, think of it as turning someone toward God. It isn’t a personal fault of
anyone (hard to think an infant is capable of sin when we use the term “innocents” to
describe babies). But rather human nature has been wounded, and as humans we are
inclined to sin. Through baptism, a person is turned back toward God and given special
grace and strength. The “effects” of original sin, and temptations to sin, which we call
“concupiscence” though remain. So what do we do about it? Well we don’t presume
baptism punches our ticket to heaven. But we continually look at ways we can grow in
grace and become better people by examining our conscience, going to confession,
receiving Holy Communion, finding time for prayer, and realizing that we are always
works in progress. It’s important to rejoice in the progress we make while always
realizing there’s room for growth, and sometimes sins can crop up again when we least
expect it. That’s nothing to be afraid of because God loves us – but it’s something we
must acknowledge.

Second, we participate in the mission as an evangelist. We believe that Jesus is a
priest, prophet and king. During the baptism rite, the oil of chrism is placed on our
forehead. This symoolizes the Holy Spirit and symoolizes God’s favor and presence.
We are a priest by living a life of prayer; a prophet by talking about who God is; and a
king by leading through example. So this means that daily, our mission will take on
different forms. We pray daily to grow closer to God. We lead a life of example of doing
some things and avoiding others to inspire others as often we are the only Bible a
person ever reads. And we at various moments in our lives talk about what our faith
means to others and why we believe what we do. That’s why growing in holiness but
also our understanding of the faith as life goes on is so important if we are to evangelize
one another.

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas Season, but as you put away the tree (assuming
it’s plastic like mine) and the manger, remember that while Christmas invites us to look
back and be reminded every year how much we are loved, the Christian should also be
always looking forward as Jesus does at His baptism. His mission will entail both joy but
also suffering and difficulty – but He will see it through to the end. Our mission can be
tough at times too – turning away from sin and being faithful to the Gospel which we’ll
hear on Ash Wednesday as the ashes are placed on our foreheads is a challenge to
sometimes live out. But it’s something that we can do through the grace God gives us at
our baptism and through His ever presence in our lives, not just as an infant who came
many years ago but as one who is always there for us. Like Jesus, may we focus on our
mission ahead which can ultimately lead us to heaven if we strive to daily welcome
Jesus into our hearts and be a people of hope, to bring God’s love into this world
through our words and actions.

Have a blessed week!

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Living Out our Faith Takes Work

Twice a year, the Catholic Church celebrates what is called an “Octave,” or an 8-day
celebration because of the magnitude of the event. These occur at Christmas and
Easter.

In Easter, all of the readings are from after the resurrection, and some are duplicated in
the following Sundays. It takes on a very festive feeling after the solemn days of Lent,
which the focus on the resurrection and triumph of Jesus over death.

Christmas certainly is festive too. But you find some days in there that certainly don’t
seem all the festive.

For instance the 26th is Saint Stephen’s Day; Stephen being the first martyr of the faith.
The 28th we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Innocents who were killed by Herod. The
29th is the feast of Thomas Becket who was killed by the English king’s knights in a
power struggle. And when we get to today’s feast of the Magi, while it is often depicted
as three astrologers from the East who come to see Jesus, the journey was certainly
very difficult and took quite some time to make. There’s a lot to unpack, but when we
look at the Octave of Christmas, we can get an understanding of how the faith is really a
journey in so many ways with some challenges we all have to face.

One among them is the necessity of patience. One account of the Magi’s journey
estimated it at 2 years. While we don’t know the exact length, it’s pretty obvious they
couldn’t take a flight or a train. When we try to live out our faith, that can be tough.
There can be spiritual dryness, where we don’t feel God’s presence. Then there’s the
waiting we have to do too as we pursue our vocation; seminary took me 6 years and
every married couple goes through ups and downs waiting to get married as they learn
a relationship takes work. There’s patience too that is needed with other people as we
hope for them to get more active in our faith; (on Saint Stephen’s Day we hear of a
young man named Saul helps to kill Stephen who later goes on to become a saint). And
patience with ourselves is needed too as we deal with the daily battle against sin. When
we are patient though we realize that we don’t go from sinner to saint in a day but that
it’s a journey – patience though has to be a part of it.

We also need to be aware of what children go through, as parents, but all of us, share in
helping young ones come to know who God is. Typically we think of childhood as a
happy, carefree time. And certainly for many kids there is that part of it, and many of us
look back on childhood with some great memories. But sadly, the reality is childhood
also has many challenges too. Some children are never born at all; and we must strive
to develop a pro-life mentality by working for an end to abortion and helping people to
choose life, not thinking this issue something we can do nothing about. Thanks to
sidewalk counselors, pro-life centers, and groups who help people chose life, lives are
saved each year. Some children also endure abuse. The clergy abuse scandal revealed
what happened when people said nothing and ignored sin. But abuse is far more
common in families, as there are many more families than priests, and as such we must all be vigilant in protecting children, reporting abuse anytime it’s suspected. More
common though is children dealing with issues such as bullying and stress. When we
become aware of these things we need to be there for kids to listen and affirm them.
Kids also deal with a lack of faith formation in the home, which is why it’s so important to
be involved and teach them the faith, take them to Mass, and pray with them. Even if
you aren’t living under the same roof, by looking for opportunities to talk about the faith
with them when you see them, or to spend time with them on the phone listening to
them, it can do so much to help fan the flames of the faith.

We also must be aware that we too will be persecuted for the faith. There are aspects of
our faith that are very counter-cultural or politically incorrect. As Catholics, we need to
be aware of that and help others understand things like the sanctity of life in the womb;
why we are against capital punishment; marriage as between a man and a woman; the
needs of immigrants, etc. It’s important we don’t fear having discussions and arguments
with others and engage those who aren’t active in the Church to we can help catechize
and evangelize. The faith isn’t meant to be kept within the Church.

The feast of Epiphany reminds us that Jesus comes for all of us. As Catholics, we want
to balance ecumenism, or working with people of other faiths, with the reality that Christ
indeed did create one, not multiple churches. For those of other faiths, I do believe
evangelization and missionary work is good, which is why we can’t fear talking about
our faith. But I also believe the truth of the faith will be fully revealed to those who did
not learn it when they die and stand before Jesus (the theologian Fr. Karl Rahner
referred to this as the “Anonymous Christian.”). However, even within our own Catholic
faith, some people can have tunnel vision and think “their way” or the way things are
done at their parish, or their preferred style of liturgy, is “holier” than the other parish, or
they can be quick to criticize something in a bishop or pope they don’t like. Lets leave
the governance of parishes up to bishops and the pope. Certainly we can have opinions
and lively discussions about liturgy and devotionals and the teachings of our Church;
that’s a good thing to be engaged. But we also can’t condemn other styles that the
Church says are perfectly acceptable simply because we dislike them.

Lastly, as I said on Christmas, as life goes on, continually give Jesus the gift of yourself.
Jesus accepts us as we are; and we give to him our acts of love and charity. But we
also give to Him our sins and struggles. The infant Jesus stayed with Mary and Joseph
after the Magi left, but the risen Christ the King journeys with us always after we leave
Mass.

A popular saying is “wise men still seek Him” and that’s very true. The Christmas Story
is one of God seeking us out – so let Him into your lives. The journey after we say “yes”
to Christ isn’t an easy one. We’ll still have struggles along the way, and people might
not like what we have to say. But we must never fear ourselves or the world or the
future, for Jesus is with us always. So seek the King of Kings who seeks you.
God bless,

Fr. Paul

Padre Paul’s Ponderings: Keeping the Family Healthy and Holy

Odds are this time of year you’ve been seeing family more often. You’ve sent out the Christmas cards and received them to hear about loved ones. You’ve had family get-
togethers. And hopefully the Christmas Season has allowed you to reconnect.

Then there is of course the people you life with under the same roof that you see every
day. More than likely with vacation this time of year you’re spending more time together
too.

For the most part, that’s a good thing, as we love one another in our families. But we
also of course drive one another crazy at times. We can fight over petty things whether
we are kids or adults. We can hold grudges. And we can just kind of get on one
another’s nerves. But at the end of the day, hopefully love always wins out.

This weekend, we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family. We know very little about the
time of Jesus birth to the time He begins His ministry. But many artists have depicted
the life of the holy family using the images that would be reflective of our own families;
Jesus, Mary and Joseph together as one under the same roof, working and spending
time together. Surely there must have been so many good things that happened under
the roof at Nazareth.

Holiness and the health of our families is something we all strive for. So how do we do
it?

I’ll preface this by saying I am not a family therapist (though I did see part of an episode
of “Dr. Phil” once). But I am a part of a family, and also as a priest come to know many
families. And there are some things that I truly believe can be very helpful.

Prayer. Prayer is how we communicate with God. When a family prays together, it hits
home a very important point: God is at the center of our lives. Prayer is a reminder that
God is above school, the careers, the sports and everything else. When we pray
together, we ask God to strengthen our families, and we also pray for one another’s
needs.

Communication. On the one hand, we are more connected than ever with our smart
phones, social media, and talking and texting all the time. But I wonder if we are more
connected to our job or friends than the people under our own roof? There is no
substitute for face-to-face communication. When you sit down to a family meal, or have
a conversation together without the distractions of the TV or the phone, it can do so
much to help people to grow. It’s so important to know what’s going on in the lives of
one another.

Listening. Listening is hard. We are often quick to give advice, to correct someone, or
to talk, but listening can work wonders. It forces us to hear a person’s whole story. It
affirms them and says their opinion matters. And it also can help us pick up on things a person might not be saying such as stress with a teacher or at work. Forcing ourselves
to listen to others in the family and be engaged by looking at them in the eye, and not
“half listening” as we look at the TV or the phone is so important for us to deepen
relationships between one another. It’s amazing what we learn when we force ourselves
to be silent.

Downtime. I think sometimes families can be so overextended; each kid is in a few
sports leagues, and then you add homework, shopping, household chores and the time
is gone. I remember at a prior parish I was at though I was invited over to a family’s
home for dinner and invited to stay for “family game night.” It was a little something they
did each week. It was great to witness. I realize that might not be realistic for every
family, but I do think it is important to have periods of rest. Part of the joy I have in going
to visit my parents is I can just “be me” and unwind and engage in conversation as I
play a game of cribbage with mom or dad or we watch a show on television together.
When you think about our lives some of our best moments are when we are relaxing
with families on trips or at dinner together – it really allows us to connect.

Opening Up. At Christmas, I spoke about how when we come to Jesus, we need not
fear hiding anything from Him. After all, it’s not as if He does not know what we are
going through. But sometimes in families we can hide things from one another. If we
love one another though, our families should be people we can trust. It’s so important
spouses and kids and parents feel comfortable talking to one another about both the
good and the not-so-good. A loved one might not like what we have to say at times, but
we really love one another we have to remember family is there for us through thick and
thin.

The Straight Dope. Coupled with opening up though, it’s so important we are honest
when we see a problem. An unhealthy relationship is one that buries uncomfortable
things; or when a person fears the other’s reaction so they do not tell them what needs
to be said. We love our family members, but sometimes a person needs to hear not
what they want to hear but what they need to hear. A family member can struggle with
an addiction; or some sin that creeps into their lives that they don’t see; or maybe they
are becoming more distant or making a series of bad decisions. Whatever it might be,
we can’t avoid confrontation. But when we are willing to challenge someone (and also
be challenged ourselves) it can do so much for long-term growth for the individual and
the family.

Visiting Extended Family. So often we might only see extended family at the holidays,
or at weddings and funerals. Try to stay connected throughout the year. I think it’s really
important as well to try to visit elderly relatives who may not be as mobile or who may
have lost their spouses. Even just a phone call from time to time can do so much for a
person to remind them they are loved and part of a family.

I’m lucky in that I can see my parents quite often, and from them I’ve learned so much.
They taught me much of what our faith contains and I learned much from the theology books in seminary, but it’s in the domestic church of the family that I’ve learned so much
about how the faith is lived out.

May God bless you and your loved ones, and may you daily grow in love for one
another. Never forget what a precious gift family is. Yes, at times we may drive one
another crazy. But when we open ourselves up to the grace of God, we can also do so
much to bring one another closer to sainthood.

God bless!

Fr. Paul